"You are more endeared to these characters by feeling you are in the fight or the battle or the tragedy with them,"

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You will find that, even if you succeed in discounting the attitudes of others to you and your life, you must wrestle with yourself most of all, fight with yourself, for there will surge up in you a strong desire to alter facts, to dress up your feelings.

你会发现，即使你可以忽略,其他人对你及你的生活的态度，你还得和自己战斗，几乎是和自己抗争，这样你就会有种强烈的欲望，要扭曲事实来添油加醋地描述你的感觉。

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For example, if your son got in a fight with his sister and you're very concerned about him,

例如，如果你的儿子跟他的妹妹打了起来，你对他很是担心，

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Ok, let's say that you have a really good relationship with your mom and you rarely ever fight.

我们假设你跟你母亲关系特别好，很少有口角。

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Because there, it's not known for dive bars with cheap beers and pin darts and, you know, people getting in a bar fight.

因为那里不是因有便宜的啤酒和针头飞镖的廉价酒吧和酒吧打架闹事而闻名。

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