He or she gets trapped in the prison of your prejudice - trapped in your "listening" and can never show up in another way to you.

他或她被你的偏见所欺骗——被你的“倾听”所欺骗，并且永远不可能在你面前表现出另一面。

youdao

One or two emails are ok, but three will probably look desperate, she adds. "and never, ever, show up at the company without an interview and demand to be seen. It will backfire."

“一两封邮件是可以的，但是三封的话就会使得别人以为你很渴望得到这份工作。她还补充说：”千万，千万不要没讲过面试和预约就跑到公司去。这样做会起到反效果的。

youdao

but she has not had the best of luck in the romance department and, with her biological clock ticking away, she has decided the "right guy" may never show up.

VOA: standard.2010.04.30