Be careful of people who may make you feel bad or unhappy about yourself.

小心那些可能让你对自己感觉不好或不开心的人。

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But you can ask yourself the following questions: Do you often feel unhappy?

但是你可以问你自己以下问题：你经常感觉到不开心吗？

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That if you stay where you are, you'll be unhappy and bored and not respect yourself.

如果你呆在原地，就不开心，会厌烦，不尊重自己了。

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You have to let yourself feel unhappy for a bit, and if you recognize your feeling and acknowledge it, you can have your sad moment and then move on.

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That's tsatske from the Yiddish, meaning roughly pretty, shiny stuff that might make you unhappy, but you'd never buy for yourself.

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