We are committed to sharing intimacy, to being friends forever but physical attraction is not part of the equation here.
我们亲密无间,一生一世,有没有激情体验无关痛痒。
if you have all three, intimacy, passion, commitment, this is "consummate love" according to Sternberg complete love.
如果亲近,激情和承诺三者兼而有之,这就是完美式爱情,完整的爱情。
So to me, I think that one of things we talk with Doc. Gager another night was this, the notion of intimacy.
对于我来说,我们和Gager博士那晚的谈话,话题之一便是“亲密接触“这个概念。
So, that really won't do the trick in giving us the best quality pleasures of the kinds that humans most crave-- the pleasures of friendship and discussion and sexual intimacy.
那无法给与我们,人类最渴望最高质量的快乐-,友谊,讨论,性事带来的快乐。
What if you have intimacy,we share secrets, passion, we feel physically attracted to each other but we're not making any commitments here."
如果有亲近关系,和激情体验,但是不做承诺“
All right. What if we have passion, I'm sexually attracted to you, but no intimacy.
好,如果有激情,你让我欲火燃烧,但我们之间并不亲近。
Now, what if you have intimacy, we share secrets with each other, but there's no particular physical attraction but we are really committed to this relationship.
那么,如果有亲近感,有共同的秘密,但是没有激情体验,但是双方共同承诺维持感情。
I like that word intimacy you used before.
我很喜欢你说的“亲密“这个词。
We don't share information with each other anymore so there's no intimacy.
不再分享秘密,不再亲近。
It's best if you don't know what that is or even if you do mistakenly attribute it, misattribute it, to physical attraction, romance, intimacy, passion and commitment, it's love.
最好是如果你不知道是什么,甚至如果你错误认定,以为是生理吸引力,浪漫,亲密,激情和承诺,那是爱情。
Or we've got to stay together for appearance's sake or we'd better stay together because financially it would be a disaster if we don't or all of the reasons other than intimacy and passion that people might commit to each other.
或者为了顾全家庭的脸面,最好还是生活在一起,如果任由关系破裂,经济上对双方是一个灾难,各种原因不解释,惟独不包括亲近和激情,两个人承诺在一起。
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